When I was an escort, I never knew what to expect when I walked through the door.
We are not discussing safety because I was always alert and I had set perameters as to where in London I would go (central only), the services I offered and the calibre of hotel I would travel to. When I mention ‘calibre’, I do not mean I selected hotels – a nice thought – but rather I would gauge whether or not the client was serious. If the hotel is a one star, then why is he prepared to part with a minimum of 600 pounds? Lilith is pretty stringent with vetting before they send a girl to a new client but an escort must always speak up if there is something she is not comfortable with for example threesomes or partying. True subjugation is enduring moments that you would rather not be in for the sake of obscene amounts of profit. Try to strike the healthy balance between earning a solid steady income whilst enjoying yourself and maintaining a day job or extra curricular activities.
The moment you make the icing the cake, the sponge will be very difficult to chew the next time round. If you take these earnings for granted you will never survive when you go back to your normal life, which is what you will have to revert to at some point. Please do not misinterpret my message and think that you should do whatever is asked of you because of the sums involved. I am drilling home the point that the client may be donating a great deal of resources but it is the girl who metaphysically is trading the most even if she is having the time of her life. Therefore, stay healthy and put yourself first. If you do not drink or indulge in other activities, then say so and stick to it. A good agency will already know what your do’s and dont’s are and it is their duty to suggest the right girls to suitable clients and make these boundaries perfectly clear to a punter who insists on having a specific girl. They are there to cover your back and assist you throughout. I have memories of being in a compromising situation looking for advice only to find the agent was not answering the phone or replying to my messsages.
If you are on a job with another or several girls and there is more than one client then the remaining two leave together. A girl should not be left alone at any point if there is more than one client. This is a personal rule and although some girls walk straight out the moment they are finished, I believe you must stay and make sure the other is leaving safely with you. It will be awfully awkward for the coward than ran off when you next meet because it is a small world after all.
Another tip is to treat yourself now and then but don’t spend unless you have covered rent and you have put a considerable amount aside for savings. There will be quiet months and maybe even weeks without work so even if you have a great innings one day, put it away and save save save.
This isn’t Pretty Woman and if you come into this looking for love, I suggest you see a therapist because this industry doesn’t offer salvation or true romance, unless we are discussing the Tarantino genre.