Dominatrix Escorts

We know countless escorts who adore BDSM and relish in the opportunity to wear tight leather, be addressed as an ‘Empress’ and try out the latest toys they purchased in Soho.

Annette is a petite sweetheart with the face of an angel and the body of a cheerleader. We understand how our inner desires can be the polarizing opposite of our outer appearance, so I decided to ask this Dominatrix escort a bit more about what particular aspects of BDSM she enjoys:

What parts of BDSM do you enjoy most? 

I would say role-play is my favorite aspect of BDSM because you get the opportunity to embody any character in any scene. For example, I have always had a thing for Spiderman, and since he’s such a taciturn and agile fellow, I would love to keep him in one place with a dog collar or handcuffs. Much to his dismay, I would rip off his mask to reveal who this secretive hero is and proceed to hinder his plans for the salvation of the world.
I do much sailing when I travel in the Mediterranean so I’m an expert at tying knots, especially ones you cannot get out of. Therefore, I enjoy rope bondage and exploring the element of control through such an object. I do believe every Dominatrix escort will have ‘bondage’ in their top three of BDSM.

How were you introduced to BDSM?

I introduced myself and not whilst I was an elite escort. An ex-boyfriend used to moan about how life within the four wall perimeter had become tedious and how much he fancied Michelle Pfeiffer as catwoman, so I decided to surprise him one night…
When he came home from work,  I was waiting for him wearing a full leather body fetish suit, with a whip in my right hand and hot candle wax on top of a heat diffuser. Needless to say, he never complained after that and always washed the dishes.

Are you dominant or submissive?

Both. It depends on what mood I am in. However, as a dominatrix escort, the clue is in the title don’t you think? Do I need to whip your bloggers into shape too?

I’m okay thanks. What do you think of Fifty Shades of Grey?

I don’t know, sounds like the average day for me. Next question!

Why did you choose to be an dominatrix escort?

Firstly, there is a huge market for it so I am always busy, and due to so many activities and secret locations you can attend with a client, I never get bored. I feel like every experience is just as exciting for me as it is for the client. Furthermore, I am not the type of escort who enjoys rocking up looking and acting like I’m in a beauty pageant; it’s just not me and I don’t need to compete for your attention.

What do you like about BDSM?

I love the intimacy and the feeling of independence. I mean, I can be submissive for a client but on the condition that it’s temporary.
BDSM is seen as a taboo because it’s exploring the animal within us, what the Ancient Greek thought called: the irrational man. In fact, BDSM is a hyper-pronounced example of human behavioral characteristics.  Everything we do is based on the pleasure pain principle without us even realizing it. We get hungry thus we placate this pain with food – pleasure, or we talk to someone we don’t really enjoy conversing with, so we play with a part of our body to distract ourselves from the present moment, which is another pleasure principle. I, like many dominatrix escorts, prefer to up the ante and oscillate between extreme levels of my cortisol and serotonin hormones.

How do you ‘play it safe’ and know when to stop?

I negotiate consent through a ‘safe word’ and also using my instinct. Putting aside the initial bravado or preliminary briefings, I can usually decipher how much pain a client or partner can handle within the first thirty seconds. You build it up slowly; only an inexperienced idiot goes in full throttle.
No one should ever be too shy to say stop. It’s normally the men who can handle the most physical pain who are the ones who have no capacity for emotional stress.

What are the misconceptions that are associated with BDSM?

It’s not a Caligula party, unless the invite says so. It can be as light or as heavy as both parties wish it to be. I think on a broader level, you can view people who enjoy this not as ‘addicts’ of any sort, but those who enjoy pushing boundaries, exploring and bending the rules. It’s no surprise that most of my clients who enjoy BDSM are self-made millionaires and even billionaires. These are not the type of people who look at the ocean and just say it’s ‘blue’.

Are there any factors of BDSM you don’t enjoy?

Many! Dominatrix escorts and clients will not be up for everything. I will tell someone prior to game play what my rules are and I ask them the same thing. It can be the smallest action where I don’t want anyone touching my feet – even romantically – to the biggest no-no where I don’t consent to any infliction when my back is turned. I do get requests from clients to bring their wife to watch. Many of my male escort friends receive requests for them to come see their wives whilst the husband watches. It’s something that I don’t feel comfortable with because almost 99.9% of the time it was the husbands idea, not the wives. Also, don’t mention your uninformed respective partner when you are with me, it’s not cool and disrespectful to her.

Do you travel for BDSM?

Only if I know the client.

Any advice for new clients or elite escorts wanting to try BDSM?

You may think you’re as wise as solomon, but no one is as strong as Samson. It’s okay to push your boundaries but don’t go too far beyond your comfort zone, otherwise it no longer becomes fun and the main reason we do this is to enjoy light-hearted play.
Another piece of advice is to not take porn as Bible. These actors and actresses have been rehearsing the shots over days and many of the sounds are augmented with special effects so something light is misconstrued as full-blown impact on the screen. It is not realistic. Cater your BDSM to your own needs and desires.

What’s the best BDSM story you’re heard of?

My friend’s estranged husband ran off with another woman for six months so she wore her wedding dress and called for two male escorts to come. She made one male escort wear her estranged husband’s groom suit, only he had to pretend to be the best man and the other male escort wore the vicar’s suit. I don’t need to go into detail but it involved ripping off the brides wedding dress. For men out there who think their wives and girlfriends wait for them at home like the March sisters from Little Women, think again!

Remember: always go to a professional and be very wary of social networking websites or commonplace individuals that offer BDSM.

For future information on BDSM or dominatrix escorts, please call Lilith escort agency reception for more details.


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